Why I Do This Work:

Growing up in a turbulent household, I learned to navigate the complexities of family dynamics from a young age, often taking on the role of a “mini therapist” to support those around me. At the same time, as one of the few openly queer kids in our conservative small town, I faced unique challenges. I constantly felt ostracized and deeply misunderstood by both my peers and the adults around me. I know that this is a shared journey for many. My own mental health and trauma struggles began early on, leading me to seek therapy during my early teen years. Since then, my therapeutic journey has been ongoing. It became clear to me long ago that I wanted to offer others a safer space — a container — to explore their own struggles, experiences, and sense of self.

As a neurodivergent person, I understand firsthand the challenges of navigating our world. The constant ebb and flow of mental health, compounded by external pressures, can be incredibly overwhelming and defeating. I know how deeply activating relationships with others can be and how painful it can be to be vulnerable. I have also witnessed the deeply transformative power that comes from having support, access to resources, introspection, and time to process with another person.

Because of my own experiences, I have a particular passion for supporting sex workers. I understand the nuance of how this path can come with challenges and hardships while also potentially being a rewarding experience. I bring a unique perspective to my practice, understanding the complexities and nuances of navigating such a dynamic and multifaceted industry. As a kinky person, I found immense excitement and passion in exploring sex therapy and how intimacy, relationships, and kink can be healing to us as both partners and individuals. When I learned about couples therapy, I knew this was the perfect way to combine my love for love and intimacy, as well as my innate curiosity about the human experience.

I completed my Bachelor’s degree in psychology with an emphasis on sex and sexuality, complemented by studies in religious and spiritual practices. I am currently in the process of completing my Master’s degree in Marriage, Couples, & Family Therapy with a Sex Therapy specialization at Lewis & Clark College here in Portland. 

It is an honor to do this work for others and bear witness to the meaning my clients make out of their lives.